Signs from the Universe that he’s the one. The first date went well… he gets along with your dog, you have the same values, and he’s even seen your favorite band in concert 3 times. But how do you really know if he’s the one?
As Britney Spears famously sang, sometimes all we want is a sign! And here they are:
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5 Signs From the Universe That He’s The One
Good news: Our spirit guides, angels, and higher self are constantly communicating with, and guiding us.
More good news: They want you to be super happy and feel perfectly aligned in life.
The best news: That means there will actually be signs from the universe that he’s the one!
Of course, that doesn’t mean neon signs will drop out of the sky the second he picks you up for your first date. And, it doesn’t mean your entire relationship will progress without a hitch (this isn’t a Hallmark movie).
In fact, that’s a common myth to bust right now — even the most perfectly matched couples will squabble. (I mean seriously, how hard is it to put down a dang toilet seat?!)
So before we get into the signs from the universe that he’s the one, remember that rough patches from time to time are not a sign that he’s NOT. :)
Okay, now let’s dig into the fun part! Here are 5 signs from the universe that he’s the one:
1. You see a sign that is specific to you
First things first, you have to establish a sign with the universe. (We’ll talk about how to do this in a second.)
Think of it this way: If you don’t know what you’re looking for, how will you see it? So before you start the hunt for signs that he’s the one, establish a sign with the universe.
But pretty please with rainbow sprinkles on top don’t over think this! Your sign doesn’t have to make sense, be related to the guy, or be an overly common thing.
To establish your sign with the universe:
- Close your eyes and relax.
- Choose a sign. Some people use favorite animals, angel numbers (like 444 or 777), or phrases.
- Set the intention that this is your sign.
- Once you’ve declared your sign, be on the lookout for it!
2. It just feels right
Listen to your feelings during this time. Start by keeping a journal with all of your feelings about him…
Notice how you feel when he knocks on your door or sends you a text. Take note of how you feel when you get home from a date. Think about how you feel when you talk about him to your friends.
(Plus, if it all works out, that journal will be a super special keepsake!)
If you have a deep, “it is well” feeling in your soul, it could be a sign from the universe that he’s the one!
3. Unconditional love
Soulmates are in it for the long haul, no matter what. They’re not just looking for a good time, and they’re not going to “peace out” when you have the stomach flu.
The universe may even provide opportunities for you to see his unconditional love.
For example, if you’re wondering why you had to snap at him, get a zit right in between your eyebrows, and forget to bring home dinner all in the same day, remember that the universe may be showing you signs of unconditional love!
4. Uncanny similarities
I’ve talked to no-doubt-about-it soulmates who both had dogs named Gibbs when they were young, have siblings with the same birthday, and toured the same 3 colleges before landing on the one they met at.
If it seems like you’re uncovering crazy similarities on every date, it might be a sign from the universe that he’s the one!
5. Your intuitive abilities are tingling
Are your intuitive senses heightened when it comes to him?
- Maybe you have a strong knowing that he’s the one. (Read the 7 surefire signs that you’re claircognizant here.)
- Perhaps that “little voice inside” is singing, “he’s the one!” (Learn the 11 signs that you’re clairaudient here.)
- Maybe you had a clairvoyant vision of a beautiful wedding dress when you met at that restaurant for your third date. (Read the signs that you’re a clairvoyant psychic here.)
- Or it just feels “different” this time. (See the 12 clairsentient signs here.)
Our psychic abilities are ways that our higher self and spirit guides connect with us, so if you’re receiving intuitive hits — they’re awesome signs from the universe that he’s the one!