A real psychic can help when you feel lost, confused, or lack clarity. But sometimes, people get stuck and don’t know which psychic they can trust… it’s hard to put your heart on your sleeve, I know!
I kinda feel it’s one of my missions in life (the other being a super wife and mom) to help people figure this stuff out. So here we are, and we’re going to talk about how to know you’ve found a real psychic – one that can help you get some clarity :)
It would be insanely awesome if a real psychic could give you the winning lottery numbers, but they can’t.
(Personally if I did win, I would buy a house on the beach and eat gourmet cheese wedges every night while sitting on my veranda in a big, floppy hat while watching the sunset. But that’s just me.)
I remember being a tween, sitting in the movie theater with my cousin watching Rocky. I remember being so emotional! The people in the theater were whooping and hollering. It was intense!
Why did Rocky move us all so much? The guy had heart. (Stick with me, I promise this little detour has everything to do with real psychics.)
“Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place, and I don’t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward; how much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!” – Rocky Balboa (2006)
Gulp. Am I the only one who needs a Kleenex?
The point is:
A real psychic reading is about heart. It’s about connecting with your soul.
Lottery-schmottery. We’re here to have experiences and learn stuff.
And a legitimate psychic can be a tool (not a crutch) to help you have more rainbows and sunshine in your life.
A real psychic is not the carpenter who comes to build your beach house. Nay. They are the power saw that helps you cut your 2×4’s.
Sure, you could struggle along and cut them all by hand, but even the Alaskan Bush People use power tools once in a while.
The psychic is like the power saw (yes, I know that’s a terrible analogy, but you can’t win ’em all). A tool to help move you along so you’re not dripping sweat trying to cut 2×4’s by hand.
Let’s get on with it.
How to Know You’ve Found a Real Psychic (or Medium)
1. They give a deep, soulful reading.
A real psychic can read your energy at the soul level. It’s deep.
They will always respect your energy and never, ever tell you what to do. They respect your free will and remind you that every choice is your own.
2. Can help you figure out the best path.
A real psychic can tell you about your life and personal development. When you have a decision to make, they can help you compare options so that you can make an empowered choice.
3. Gives you insight (AH-HA! moments)
The most important thing a real psychic can do is give you insight about your life.
Sometimes, we are so stuck in the muck of life that we can’t see a way out. We’re too close to the situation, you know what I mean? An intuitive reading given with love and Divine guidance can give you the confidence to move forward.
4. Will be totally honest.
A real psychic is a real human being and doesn’t have all the answers. They may be able to see certain aspects of your future, but not others.
They will let you know when they are not clear about something and won’t try to make information “fit”.
5. Always works for your highest and best good.
A real psychic works for your highest and best good and can help you smooth out potential pitfalls in life.
For example, let’s say you ask the psychic why your partner has been distant lately.
You’re told (with love) that you’ve been a bit “naggy” and have not been snapping because you are tired – you keep snapping at your partner because you don’t feel appreciated.
Suddenly, it’s like… Holy cow, I did yell at Jimmy about picking up his dirty socks and not unloading the dishwasher and like a thousand other things last week. An aha moment!
A Real Psychic Can’t…
6. Fix your relationship or cast a spell (insert eye roll here).
Fix your relationship? If only it were that easy, right?!
If someone promises that they can cast a spell to bring someone back into your life, it’s a scam! Run the other way rápido!
We’re all born with free will and no spell can make a person fall in love with you. If that were the case, my mom would be married to Mark Wahlberg.
7. Fix your life.
You could see the most amazing, famous psychic on the face of the earth, but they can’t help you if you don’t WANT to move forward.
In order for healing to take place, you have to want it.
8. Play silly “psychic games”.
A real psychic can’t tell what time you got out of bed this morning or what your phone number is (Yes, someone did ask me that). I mean, who cares?
We’ve got serious stuff going on here, people. Focus on connecting with your heart and soul :)
Tip: There are lots and lots of wonderful psychics out there! You can get a reading with one of my favorites right here (affiliate).