Those lucky enough to have number 3 energy are fun-loving extroverts that are full of heart-melty charm.
Let’s chat about the characteristics, purpose and challenges of the numerology number 3.
We’ll dish all the dirt on compatibility and love matches, too!
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How to Know You’re a Numerology Number 3
If your birthday is on the 3rd, 12th, 21st, or 30th of the month, you are ruled by the number three.
You’re also a numerology number 3 if it is one your Life Path, Expression, Soul Urge, or Karmic number. (more on this later)
Numerology Number 3 Life Path
As a numerology number 3, your greatest gift is your magnificent communication skills… both verbal and written. It also doesn’t hurt that you are one of those people that is good at everything. :)
Swirl that in with your charm, love of life, and genuine care for others, and you’ve got a recipe for success… You totally have the ability to inspire others, either one-on-one or by the thousands!
As wonderful as these gifts are, they can also be your downfall if you don’t awaken them to their full potential.
As a 3, you need to be be sure to use your sharp communication skills in positive ways rather than negative. Yep, that means no chronic complaining, gossiping, or being too blunt!
Your other challenge is that you get caught up in analyzing the details of every decision you need to make. One moment, you have genius idea, and the next, your mind is filled with doubt and “what if” scenarios.
This can make you feel depressed, irritable, and like you are spinning your wheels.
Tips for overcoming numerology number 3 emotional challenges:
- Embrace a spiritual practice such as yoga or meditation. Not only will it make you feel less scattered, it will also connect you with your Higher Self. Being in tune with your Higher Self helps you communicate with love and kindness. It also helps you make decisions with ease! Here’s our favorite article for learning how to meditate.
- Make time for yourself each day. No doubt about it, the numerology number 3 is one of the most inspiring in numerology. Combine that with your gift of gab and charming presence, and you are a powerhouse! Be mindful though to take time for yourself when you need to. 30 – 60 minutes of alone time can do wonders for your mind, body, and spirit! You may find these meditation alternatives a fun way to recharge.
You have the potential to live a fabulous and very joyful life! Overcoming self-doubt and sharpening your communication skills will help you reach your potential.
Personality Traits of the Numerology Number 3
You are beautiful on the inside and out, and others are enchanted by your bright personality and aura.
A true creative soul, you like to be able to “go with the flow,” and feel happiest when you are not tied down to a set schedule.
Let’s take a deeper look:
Optimistic and Charming
Not only do you live life with a wide-eyed wonder, you’re also optimistic and outgoing. And of course, you are always the life of the party — which is exactly what you want to be!
You have a charisma that draws people to you. But do you know what’s interesting and unique about you? You’re rarely looking for deep, meaningful friendships. Huh, what’s up with that?
Number 3’s usually prefer to hang out with acquaintances who will go along with whatever they’re up to!
You Rock at Helping People
You enjoy helping and inspiring others. Your gift of gab keeps others enthralled, and hides a deep insecurity about your lack of depth. After all, you see life like a delicious buffet with tons to offer…
That means it can take time for you to develop:
- who you are
- what you stand for
- and how to make the best decisions for your long-term happiness
Don’t worry though, you’ll get there!
You are extremely talented in the arts, specifically in the art of communication of any type. As we said, you’ve got the gift of gab!
You are expressive, cultured, and have impeccable taste in everything from fashion to interior design. Just be careful that it doesn’t lead to vanity. :)
On any given day, you’ll typically find a numerology number 3 happy and easy to please… ooh, a new flavor at the coffee shop today, yay!
Number 3 Traits Summary
Numerology Number 3 Challenges
Lack of Focus (Feeling Scattered)
The problem: It’s it’s easy for you to be distracted by “bright shiny objects.”
Many 3’s find that it takes them time and practice to discover the wherewithal to be able to focus on one thing at a time. But take comfort knowing that finding your rhythm with this trait is SO worth it! It will keep you upbeat when your fickle nature and lack of planning cause things to get a little too chaotic.
When difficulties arise in your life, it can be easy for you to become swept up in, and overwhelmed by them. Sometimes, loved ones might have to step in and help you chillax.
Lack of Self-Confidence
One of the most important lessons you need to learn is to let your real, authentic self shine through.
You rock, so why not? :)
Spirituality can help draw in the things you seek in life. The Universe gives you more of what you focus on, so try to focus on what you want and not on what you lack. Super important stuff.
Do the inner work, and opportunities and abundance will be drawn to you!
Numerology number 3, life doesn’t have to be a ball and chain you drag behind you. You can take your personality traits and work with them in your own way to create a deep, rich life with meaning… meaningful work, relationships and life!
- To learn more about numerology challenges, read this article
Numerology Number 3 Career and Work
Due to your extraordinary talent in the arts, you do well in an environment of creativity and may feel called to use these gifts.
Speaking of gifts, since you have so many, you could choose from a bunch of different careers!
But let’s talk turkey.
Although you’re bright, you can be mentally scattered. Sometimes, you rely on your good looks and easy-going manner to open up opportunities for you!
As a numerology number 3 you can be a little unfocused and undisciplined. Because of this, it’s vital to work on developing discipline in all areas of your life.
You Dislike Routines and Schedules
Anything that makes you feel trapped or tied down is not for you. (You can see how this could cause a little snafu on the career front!)
Many 3’s have thrown away their talents in the arts because they couldn’t focus enough to dedicate themselves to their craft. But don’t lose hope…
Careers that allow 3’s to set their own hours or give them freedom are awesome choices.
- Counselor or therapist
- Inspirational speaker
As a numerology number 3, you are a good teacher and enjoy helping others master things that you know about. You are SO generous in this area of your life.
You can be a good leader when you try, because people trust and follow you due to your charisma and smooth talk. 3’s can be great in the entertainment field where their personality can sparkle!
Numerology Number 3 Relationships and Compatibility
Most Compatible Love Matches
3 and 1 – Like the tulips in spring, love blooms for this pair! The numerology number 3 is a creative force, and the one is a mover and shaker that knows how to get things done. This is a potential power couple, as long as both people don’t let their sensitivity get the best of them. Get the full scoop on the numerology number 1 here.
3 and 2 – In this relationship, both people are sensitive and creative, which can lead to a dynamic pair! A 2 and 3 are the swoon-worthy couple you see holding hands in the art museum… or chatting away over a chai latte in a hip coffee shop! A fabulous match! Learn more about the loving number 2.
3 and 3 – You know that couple that everyone envies? The one that is super in-sync and doubly charming? They might be a pair of numerology 3’s! With their “glass half-full” optimism, this pair might ride of into the sunset on a bicycle built for two!
3 and 5 – On any given day, the free-spirited numerology number 5 is ready to sail the open sea with their charming 3. Both halves of this pair are social, love helping others and hate feeling tied down to a schedule. The result? Sparks fly for these two! Read the full number 5 article.
3 and 9 – This couple can be a dream team! The numerology 9 is a humanitarian in every sense of the word, and will appreciate the helpful spirit of the 3. And like a fine wine and cheese, the 9 can be complimentary to the 3 and help them stay focused.
Potential Love Matches
3 and 4 – Some things never go out of style… a little black dress, a t-shirt paired with jeans, and a numerology number 3 and 4 in love! This is the classic “opposites attract” relationship that wins our heart’s in most RomCom’s. As opposites, this duo can live happily ever after… or be the War of the Roses! The name of the game for these two is acceptance of each other ways. If the 4 can let the 3 “go with the flow,” it has the potential to be a magical match! Learn the life path and traits of numerology 4 here.
3 and 6 – There’s potential for this relationship. The numerology number 3 is charming (and flirtatious!) and this can upset the 6. But, if these two can support each other (without the 6 being too supportive), the 6 can help the 3 find their focus. This could be a solid, complimentary match!
3 and 8 – Compatibility can be in the cards for this match if they embrace the traits of the other and don’t try to change each other. The 3 is happiest when finding new and fun ways to be happy (they don’t like to be tied down, remember?) If the 8 is okay with their free spirit, this pair can balance each other out and make an excellent couple! Learn the traits, challenges and Life Path of number 8.
3 and 7 – Though this pair has majorly opposite personalities (introvert vs. extrovert), it may work if both people are mindful that they have different interests. Example: The number 7 would rather stay at home watching a documentary than sit at the 3’s work party. For this pair to work, they need to be okay with their differences.
What if You Are a Master Number 11 or 22?
When factoring compatibility, we don’t use Master numbers. Instead, follow this easy peasy rule:
Being Friends With a Number 3
As a numerology number 3, you love having people around. But, as we mentioned before, you aren’t looking for any deep friendship “commitments.” You like a free schedule, ya know?
This can make relationships tough for you. Many of the people who are drawn to your awesome-sauce want to include you in their lives…
They may want to be your BFF — but you may feel as though they hold you back. This can cause friends to eventually distance themselves from you.
Continue to Learn About Numerology
As you can see, numerology is one of the most interesting areas in metaphysics (super accurate, too!) If you want more, you’ll love these resources that will teach you tons more about the magic of numerology!
Watch a Life Path number video (highly recommended!)
- Amazing, accurate, and super detailed numerology reports. Get started with a FREE Life Path Number reading!
Get cozy and ready to satisfy the budding numerologist in you! First, download the numerology chart here, then, read through the articles below to calculate your numerology forecast:
- Life Path Number. Want to learn more about your life path? This is the number for you!
- Soul Urge Number. Uncover your heart’s desires by calculating this number.
- Expression Number. Learn how you can best express your life path number by calculating your expression (destiny) number.
- Karmic Number (we’re writing up this post as you read :)) Reveals your hopes, dreams, hidden fears, and desires.
- What is Numerology? Easiest ever article for beginners.
- The Complete Book of Numerology is a favorite, loaded with tons of easy to follow info.
- The Numerology Guidebook: Uncover Your Destiny and the Blueprint of Your Life. Dive deep into your destiny with this five-star book by Hay House, Inc.
- The Power of Birthday, Stars and Numbers: The Complete Personology Reference Guide. A sweet twist of numerology and astrology. SO much fun!
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