A powerful psychic reading can be a pretty amazing experience. Learn what you can do to help ensure that your session with a psychic or spiritual medium is the best that it can be.
1. Prepare Mentally
What’s on your mind that caused you to make an appointment for a reading? A day or so before your session take a little time and think about questions or areas you’d like to cover during your appointment.
If your session is with a spiritual medium, this step is even more important. In your mind, imagine making an appointment with your dearly departed loved one to meet you at the time of your reading.
2. Be Relaxed
This really is the golden rule of getting a powerful psychic reading. In order for energy to flow, you need to be relaxed.
If you arrive at your session and find that you are a bundle of nerves, take a few minutes and talk to the reader. Tell them you are nervous and spend a few minutes making small talk. This is often enough to help put people at ease.
3. Ask Why, How, and What Type Questions
When you ask questions that begin with why, how, or what, you are really opening the door to exploring any issue in depth. For example, someone might say, “will I ever get along with my in-laws?” which could easily be answered yes or no.
Instead, try asking something like, “what am I supposed to be learning from my relationship with my in-laws?” or “how can I repair my relationship with my in-laws?”
See the difference? The second type of questioning leads the way
for an in depth exploration of the issue. You will have a much more powerful psychic reading if you use this style of questioning.
Sometimes, there are even past life connections that come into play that you can’t discover with a yes or no type question.
4. It’s all About the Energy Baby!
Keeping the energy flowing during a reading is super important. If the energy is not flowing, it’s like trying to drive a car with flat tires.
In order to experience a powerful psychic reading, be open to all possibilities. Discuss the issues you came for, but welcome the unexpected also. A good psychic reader will always set the intention that a session is for your highest and best good.
True, the reader should be doing most of the talking, but that doesn’t mean you have to sit solemnly in silence. You can interact without “giving anything away”. Even an enthusiastic yes that makes sense! keeps the energy high. And don’t worry about all the myths like "psychics can read your mind" - they can't - so feel free to relax.
5. Don’t Set Yourself Up for Disappointment - Especially in a Mediumship Reading
Here’s a great example that happens all the time. Someone goes to see a spiritual medium and thinks to themselves, I’m only going to believe this is Uncle Jimmy if he talks about smoking cigars. The medium could give you tons of validating evidence, but, if you don’t hear about that cigar, you don’t believe its Uncle Jimmy. If most of the information makes sense, go with it. Don’t set yourself up for disappointment.
Remember, spiritual mediums work to give those in spirit a voice.
6. Take Notes
I always start my sessions by recommending to people that they take notes. Even if you have a memory like an elephant, take notes. People always say they will remember everything - they don’t. Write down important points.
Also, things sometimes come up that don’t make sense at the time of a reading. Even if these things seem insignificant, write them down too. They may make sense to you later on, or someone in the family might be able to confirm the information.
7. Use a Proper Phone
Phone sessions are a great option for many people. In order to get a powerful psychic reading, it is usually better if you use a landline instead of a cell phone. If a cell phone is all you have, make sure you are in an area where you have good reception.
8. Eliminate Distractions
A powerful psychic reading cannot take place if you are distracted. During your reading, you really want to focus on the task at hand. If you are having a telephone reading, make sure you are in a quiet, comfortable place with no distractions…that means no kids running around, ignoring call waiting, etc.
If you are having a reading in person with a psychic, make sure you turn off your cell phone and are not in a rush…many times, readings go over their allotted time.
9. Don’t Show up for Your Reading with a Hangover
No alcohol or recreational drugs in the 24 hour period prior to your reading. They can lower your vibration and energy. Prescription and over the counter meds are fine.
10. Enjoy it!
Above all else, enjoy it! A powerful psychic reading should feel like a conversation with a friend that you don’t want to end. Participate, ask questions, get excited! If, within 10 minutes of your session you are uncomfortable, or nothing makes sense, politely ask the reader to end the session and refund your money.