Learn the things that a good psychic reader does so you can get a fabulous reading that touches your soul!
1. They leave judgments at the door.
Readings and judgments don't mix. A good psychic reader knows this and puts aside all of their biases and personal feelings when they are working.
Here's an example: A client named Marie walks in and she's upset. She drank heavily while her four children were growing up, and now that they're adults they want nothing to do with her. They blame their mother's alcoholism for all of their problems. Marie schedules a reading to get some clarity into the situation.
Ready for the big twist?
Whatever the reader's personal feelings are about the situation are irrelevant.
Our job is to pass along the information we receive from your spiritual guides and loved ones in heaven, not to shake a finger at you and say, "you've been a bad girl!"
Their sessions are positive, and they set the intention beforehand that you receive information that is for your highest and best good.
And, they won't just fill your ears with what you want to hear, they will focus on what you need to hear (such as life lessons) - always in a positive and non-judgmental way.
When you are done, you should feel uplifted, not depressed or frightened.
My Story - and why I had to write this article
"You're husband is plotting to kill you, you have to get out now!"
That is the terrifying prediction that one unethical reader gave me back in 2002.
Luckily for me, I was being mentored at the time by some of the best and most ethical psychics in the world. I was immediately able to recognize that this prediction was not from the Light.
Can you imagine what could have happened if I had taken this seriously? I knew I had to get the word out!
(By the way, I've polled my Facebook followers about this - lots of folks have had scary predictions, and not one has reported that the prediction ever come true!)
There are plenty of ethical psychics and spiritual mediums out there, and there is a huge difference in the quality of the readings they give.
2. A good psychic reader will not scare you...ever!
Contrary, they will always encourage you to be comfortable, relaxed, and at ease. They will never frighten you with scary news and they will never:
3. They believe honesty is the best policy.
If you ask a question to a good psychic reader and they don't know the answer, they will admit it. They will not try to make information "fit."
You may think this is an oxymoron - after all, shouldn't a good psychic reader be able to tell you everything your heart desires?
No, and here's one reason... readers of integrity play by the rules. If an answer to your question is not coming to light during a session, they know there is a reason.
Also, they will not give you predictions like:
4. Remind you that decisions are always yours.
This is super important! A good psychic reader will offer insight, but still encourage you to take charge of creating a life plan for yourself.
They will not tell you what to do, but can shed light on why certain events are happening in your life. This eliminates psychic dependency and also empowers you!
If you are trying to make a decision, they can ask your spirit guides for further information about the path you are currently on versus the new path you are thinking of taking.
Bottom line: If you hear a psychic say something like you must do such-and-such, run the other way! You have the right to do whatever it is that you want to do.
Never, ever do something that does not feel right to you.
5. A good psychic reader is respectful.
They respect the religious and spiritual beliefs of others and will not force their personal beliefs onto their clients.
They also respect the feelings of their others, and will deliver messages in a sensitive way.
So there you have it - five secrets that the best psychics and mediums know!